KISKII™
Share. Check In. Know Before You Meet.
KISKII™ is one of the core Share / Check-In frameworks of the Timaci Method™. It helps singles share the relationship information that matters before a first date and check whether there is enough alignment to meet.
Do not go on the first date until you have asked and answered the KISKII™ questions.
Know yourself with Verotu™. Share and check in with KISKII™.
KISKII™ is used as part of Timaci dating and matchmaking services.
FIRST: KNOW YOUR VEROTU™
KISKII™ starts with knowing yourself. Before you can tell another person what you want, you need clarity about who you are, what you need, the relationship you want, and the future you want to build.
Verotu™ is the self-reflection foundation of the Timaci Method™. Once you understand your Verotu™, KISKII™ gives you a structured way to share that information with another person.
VEROTU™ = KNOW YOURSELF
KISKII™ = SHARE & CHECK IN →
THE KISKII™ RULE
DON'T GO ON THE FIRST DATE UNTIL YOU ASK THE KISKII™ QUESTIONS.
The purpose is not to interview or interrogate someone. The purpose is to learn enough about each other's relationship direction, needs and timeframe to decide whether meeting makes sense.
If the KISKII™ questions are answered and both people choose to meet, that first meeting is called a KISKII™ Date.
WHAT IS A KISKII™ DATE?
A KISKII™ Date is a first date that happens after the KISKII™ questions have been shared and answered.
KISKII carries the idea of “magic” or “miracle.” The goal is not to promise a perfect match. It represents meeting with greater clarity and intention because both people already understand important relationship expectations.
Verotu™
Know yourself →
KISKII™
Share and check alignment →
KISKII™ Date
Meet with intention →
THE 4 KISKII™ QUESTIONS BEFORE THE FIRST DATE
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1. Can we have a short phone conversation before meeting?
Have a brief conversation before the first date. Ask a few important questions and get a basic sense of each other before deciding to meet.
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2. What does your ideal relationship look like?
What kind of relationship do you want? For example: Would you prefer a committed relationship while maintaining separate homes? Would you eventually like to live together? Would you like to live together but never marry? Do you want to get married? How often would you ideally spend time together each week?
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3. What are your Top 5 Needs in a relationship?
What are the five most important relationship needs or qualities that you need a partner to provide for you to feel fulfilled in the relationship? These should come from the self-knowledge and clarity developed through Verotu™.
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4. What is your timeframe?
If you meet the right person, what is your preferred timeframe for becoming exclusive, moving in together, getting engaged, getting married, and any other important relationship milestones?
KISKII™ CONTINUES AFTER THE FIRST DATE
KISKII™ is not only a pre-date framework. It is also a Share / Check-In framework. As people and circumstances change, KISKII™ can be used again to share updates, revisit expectations and check whether both people remain aligned.
Share before the date. Check in as the relationship develops.
KISKII™ DATING & MATCHMAKING SERVICES
KISKII™ is available through Timaci dating and matchmaking services for singles who want more structure, clarity and intention in dating.
A Timaci Dating Coach or Matchmaker can help clients understand their Verotu™, prepare for the KISKII™ conversation, use the four KISKII™ questions before the first date, and evaluate alignment before deciding what comes next.
- Dating and matchmaking support↗
- KISKII™ pre-date preparation↗
- Pre-date alignment support↗
- Top 5 Needs clarification↗
- Relationship timeframe clarification↗
- Dating decision support↗
- Ongoing KISKII™ relationship check-ins↗
DON'T JUST GO ON A FIRST DATE. HAVE A KISKII™ DATE.
Start with clarity. Ask the KISKII™ questions. Then decide whether you want to meet.